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Sexual Harrassment
Friday. 4.3.09 1:39 am
Oh my god... I'm still a virgin.
There had a talk about sexual harrassment at my school this morning.
She told us what sexual harrassment was and some examples of it.
And I'm disagree with some of the points.

The first point was, touching of skin between boys and girls. Hey man, I have a touch with a person who is opposite sex with me, I hold her hand, I pat her arm and want to say a hi OR I accidently knocked into a girl... Does that consider sexual harrassment then? If yes, please, kill me, because my classmate always do that on me, so I was no more a virgin NOW.

The second point, starring at someone who has different sex with someone. She said, this is sexual harrassment, next gave us two examples. "That girl is stunning. What a handsome guy." Oh my god... I know Malaysian is kind of conservative, but that has already beyonded the limit! If her saying is true, many people out there has become a pervert and over million of people on the earth has unconsciously become a sexual victim, I believe.

These are the points for as long as I can remember. I think it is unreasonable, very. There's no point to say it's sexual harrassment just by touching the opposite sex's skin. To my astonishment, the second point is just rubbish. You don't say it's sexual harrassment, it's how a normal person would say if they see a nice-looking person. We are human... aren't we? She alien!

And she showed us some videos too - some videos about people abandoned their babies. They abandoned their baby under a tree, beside the road and let him/her face the cold wind and heavy rain. I have a question, why do people like to give birth to a baby who they don't want to take care of? I understand, especially teenagers, like me, the majority of them are curious about sex and they would have sexual urge. However, do they think about those miserable, abandoned babies? NO! They just want to do it when they feel they want to and I've hated this kind of unresponsible bastard so much, I can't explain how much in a few words... I really can't!

I'd like to say,
Don't damage people' life,
Don't harm the ladies,
Don't kill the babies.
Condoms, birth control pills are used to control birth.
So make use of them, don't abuse them.

Last but not least, I really don't understand, why do people expect sex so much?
They can have sex with their wife/husband once they get married over hundreds times in their whole life and nobody could catch them. Just let go of the unmarried.

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It seems like the terms of sexual harassment are a lot more strict in Malaysia. In the US, the allegations have to be a lot more specific and deliberate...I dunno, maybe your teacher is putting too much of her opinion into the discussion?
» The-Muffin-Man on 2009-04-03 03:50:01

very refreshing to hear someone say this
» Zanzibar on 2009-04-03 11:44:34

Is your teacher a Malay? I can totally see the point if she is.

You know what sexual harrasment is? Guys dry humping women in the LRT, guys trying to grope you in Sg Wang, jokes about parts of the body which is meant to embarrass people and not mere jokes.. among others.

This is one problem with a lot of Malaysian teachers/lecturers. They do not understand certain concepts and yet they practice it and when you complain about it, they say that you're the one who's wrong. Does she even know what that mean and the scope of sexual harrassment in the first place?

Btw, premaritial sex is not sexual harrassment.
» Nuttz on 2009-04-03 12:40:53

Wow that's considered flirting and/or being affectionate in the USA. Yes, I do agree that it's just part of being human.

As for acts of sex, I agree that people should be more responsible about it.

Nuttz is right about what sexual harassment is. Wow I didn't realize that such things could be so strict in other countries.
» Kirei on 2009-04-03 02:19:56

@@'' mati o mati... then have to separate gender in different bus, cinema... shopping malls? haha
» jolenesiah on 2009-04-03 07:58:45

Sometimes people in our country focuses on the wrong things. That's one of the reasons why I would love to be able to migrate to another country for a while or forever depending on how I find that other country.

You should totally try to drive again. Needing to depend on people to go around sucks since our taxi system isn't like Singapore's.
» Nuttz on 2009-04-04 11:13:12

Those examples of sexual harassment are hilarious. I guess they might not be if I lived there, though.
» randomjunk on 2009-04-04 08:53:54

haha it's alright man
i'm a virgin also

well i live in canada, and if you take chinese in school, you learn simplified (chinese isn't an official language here)
and so i take classes outside of school, and my parents are from hk, so they read traditional.
I think it's easier as well,to read simplified if you already know traditional, rather than the other way around
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